Too Tired to Care: What to do When Your a Mom & You Feel Like You Hate Your Life

Some of us exhausted Moms who are barely on the brink of sanity because it all feels SO heavy – surrounded by a mountain of laundry taller than Mt. Everest, and feeling like you're too frustrated, overwhelmed and stressed out to care, fear not! You are not alone in the “I'm a Mom and I hate my life” club.

But hey, chin up, tired warrior Mama!! We are here to share a bit of humor and some practical tips to reignite your Mommy Mojo and zest for life when you have one of those days where you are one of the Moms who hate their life.... 

• Embrace the Chaos Like a Pro Wrestler: Let's face it, life with kids is like a chaotic wrestling match where you're constantly grappling with tantrums, sticky fingers, and inexplicable messes. So why not channel your inner Hulk Hogan and embrace the chaos? Instead of screaming into a pillow, throw a few exaggerated wrestling moves into your daily routine. Trust me, suplexing a pile of laundry can be surprisingly therapeutic! 

• Time-Out for Mommy: As much as we love our little ankle-biters, sometimes we absolutely need a breather. And no, hiding in the bathroom doesn't count!  Schedule regular "mommy time-outs" where you escape to a quiet corner with a book, a cup of tea, or just some blissful silence.  Ask the people around you for support with this. It's amazing what a few minutes of solitude can do for your sanity.  You deserve it. 
  

• Join the Rebellion Against Pinterest-Perfect Parenting: Repeat after me: "I solemnly swear to embrace the messiness of motherhood and reject the tyranny of Pinterest-perfect parenting." Let's face it, those immaculately crafted bento boxes and DIY sensory activities are enough to make any mom feel like a bit of a failure if they weren’t the one posting it. So, ditch the comparison game and revel in the beautiful chaos of your own unique parenting style. Remember, messy is the new masterpiece! 

• Dance Like Nobody's Watching (Even if They Are): When was the last time you busted a move like nobody's business? Impromptu kitchen dance party??! I think YES!   Turn up the tunes, ignore the judgmental stares from your kids, and dance like it's your own personal rave. Not only is dancing a great stress reliever, but it's  also a fantastic way to embarrass your children – a win-win situation! 
  

• Find Your Mom Tribe (Bonus Points if They Bring Wine): Every tired mom needs her tribe – those fellow warriors who understand the struggle and won't judge you for wearing yesterday's yoga pants for the third day in a row. Whether it's a virtual support group, a local mommy-and-me class, or just a group chat filled with hilarious memes  (have you join our FB Group ‘The Tired Mothers’ yet?!), surrounding yourself with supportive mom friends can make ALL the difference. 

In the midst of sleepless nights, endless tasks, and the perpetual mess that comes with raising tiny humans, it's easy to be unhappy and disillusioned.

Remember, it's okay to feel like occasionally you're teetering on the edge of a mom-induced meltdown.

But amidst the chaos, there are moments of pure magic – those fleeting instances of belly laughs, sloppy kisses, and bear hugs that make it all worthwhile, and that is what we must continue to look forward to. 

So, take a deep breath, embrace the craziness because now is not forever, and know that you're doing an amazing job, one messy day at a time, as the Mom that you are. You've got this, Mama!